When the mind’s process is in control, we easily accept the reference point and further reinforce it by agreeing with it. This keeps our thought process in an either / or , yes / no, and black / white pattern, but life isn’t that cut and dried. We must regain control of our thoughts and retrain ourselves to think things through. We must retrain ourselves to ask questions – is what we are seeing the whole picture, or is there things we aren’t aware of?

We are drawn to agree with the majority because we are afraid that we will be ostracised – left out – abandoned – if we don’t.

Locate the file that deals with abandonment in your FEAR cabinet and reassess it now – at your current level of understanding. Do you have and are you associating with people who would abandon you over an opinion? If so – you might want to re-think your associations.

Search your feelings. What does your gut tell you?

Peace and contentment are found in the grey area – where black and white meet and are balanced. The-beauty-of-life-lies-in-betweenthe-black-white